Self-management Skills
Self-management skills tell an employer whether or not your personality fits
the personality of the company, the bosses, and the co-workers.
Over 50 percent of the people who are not successful on the job have trouble
with their co-workers and bosses, so its important for you to show employers how
you fit into their operations.
Many employers would rather hire an inexperienced worker with good
self-management skills than an experienced worker who might cause problems.
If you are not sure what kind of management skills you have, do the exercise
on the following pages. This exercise will help you identify your strongest
self-management skills.
Review this list of self-management skills and check any three that you
believe you exhibit over 50% of the time. Place a second check next to the 10
skills that you believe would be most important in the next job you have that
meets your primary job objective.
A = I Exhibit
B = Next Job
| A |
B |
self-management skill |
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| academic |
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| active |
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| accurate |
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| adaptable |
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| adventurous |
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| affectionate |
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| aggressive |
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| alert |
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| ambitious |
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| artistic |
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| assertive |
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| attractive |
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| bold |
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| broad-minded |
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| businesslike |
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| calm |
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| careful |
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| cautious |
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| charming |
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| cheerful |
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| clear-thinking |
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| clever |
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| competent |
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| competitive |
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| confident |
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| conscientious |
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| conservative |
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| considerate |
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| cool |
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| cooperative |
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| courageous |
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| creative |
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| curious |
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| daring |
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| deliberate |
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| democratic |
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| dependable |
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| determined |
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| dignified |
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| discreet |
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| dominant |
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| eager |
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| easygoing |
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| efficient |
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| emotional |
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| energetic |
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| enterprising |
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| enthusiastic |
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| fair-minded |
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| farsighted |
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| firm |
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| flexible |
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| forceful |
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| formal |
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| frank |
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| friendly |
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| generous |
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| gentle |
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| good-natured |
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| healthy |
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| helpful |
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| honest |
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| humorous |
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| idealistic |
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| imaginative |
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| independent |
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| individualistic |
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| industrious |
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| informal |
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| ingenious |
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| intellectual |
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| intelligent |
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| intentive |
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| kind |
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| leisurely |
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| lighthearted |
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| likable |
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| logical |
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| loyal |
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| mature |
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| methodical |
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| meticulous |
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| mild |
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| moderate |
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| modest |
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| natural |
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| obliging |
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| open-minded |
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| opportunistic |
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| optimistic |
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| organized |
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| original |
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| outgoing |
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| painstaking |
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| patient |
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| peaceable |
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| persevering |
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| pleasant |
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| poised |
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| polite |
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| practical |
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| precise |
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| progressive |
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| prudent |
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| purposeful |
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| pressure-resistant |
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| punctual |
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| productive |
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| quick |
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| quiet |
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| rational |
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| realistic |
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| reasonable |
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| reflective |
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| relaxed |
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| reliable |
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| reserved |
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| resourceful |
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| responsible |
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| retiring |
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| robust |
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| self-confident |
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| sensible |
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| sensitive |
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| serious |
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| sharp-witted |
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| sincere |
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| sociable |
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| spontaneous |
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| spunky |
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| stable |
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| steady |
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| strong |
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| strong-minded |
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| sympathetic |
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| tactful |
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| teachable |
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| tenacious |
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| thorough |
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| thoughtful |
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| tolerant |
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| tough |
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| trusting |
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| trustworthy |
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| unaffected |
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| unassuming |
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| understanding |
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| unexcitable |
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| uninhibited |
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| verbal |
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| versatile |
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| warm |
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| wholesome |
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| wise |
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| witty |
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| zany |
Now, select two of your strongest self-management skills and write these as
complete statements.
Then include examples from your own experiences that support your statements.
Also, show a connection between each skill and the job you want.
Statement
Example
Connection